We never know which life experience will become our next sexual fantasy: the image of a flight attendant on our way back from vacation, the uniform of a policeman giving us a speeding ticket, or a romantic movie about a blind date of two complete strangers. Human imagination knows no limits, and therefore, our sexual fantasies are unlimited, too.
Most people don’t speak up about new kinky things they would like to try in bed, which doesn’t mean that they don’t have them. Most of us do have sexual fantasies. But not so many of us feel free to put them into reality.
But human life is too short (and our sex life is even shorter) to deprive yourself of the sexual pleasure you want to have. It might be inappropriate to have sex with a police officer, midwife, doctor, or teacher if your partner has a different occupation. But you can always try role plays that might become a perfect chance to make all your fantasies real. And in this article, you’ll find a guide on how to do it in a way that will make you not want to leave the bedroom.
Define Your Fantasies
First of all, you should remember that there are no ‘pervert’ or abnormal sexual fantasies unless you want to violate the law. Our desires are normal, and we should give more freedom to them. Think of what you would like to try in bed and then tell your partner about it.
We don’t know about your desires, and neither does your partner. So, if you want your fantasies to become real, the only solution is to tell the person you have sex with about what exactly you want.
You might need to watch some porn together to reveal which new things would be interesting for you. Many people live, not knowing that sex can be as versatile, experimental, and delightful as it actually is. Porn opens the door to new ideas and desires. Therefore, you should leave room for it in your romantic relationships.
Remember to ask about what your partner wants in bed. It might be very selfish to require new feelings from someone but not give them pleasure in return. Let your relationships be a place free for honesty, intimate desires, and fantasies.
Dress to Undress
A visual aspect is crucial in sex. Our sexual arousal mainly depends on what we see. For sure, you’ve seen your woman in a comfy hoodie and warm leggings thousands of times. There are no doubts, most of the time, your man walks all over the house in sweatpants and flip flops. But very often, these comfortable old sweatpants and hoodies become the first step to killing your pleasure during sex.
Roleplays are a perfect occasion to bring something new to your sex life. The clothes you wear during them are crucial. These might be kinky costumes or sexy underwear. The choice is yours! Also, going to a sex shop together and picking the clothes you want to see on your partner will only heat your arousal.
You can also use wigs, glasses, knee highs, high heels, or basically anything that comes to your mind. These accessories will make a game more realistic and, therefore, you’ll receive more excitement.
Sex Toys for a Role Play
Many people neglect to buy sex toys and lose the opportunity to experience the excitement of being tied up, spanked with a whip, or have their eyes covered with a blindfold. The preferences are as versatile as the human imagination is. But you and your partner will definitely find something special for yourselves.
Many people confess that before they tried such toys as a couple vibrator or an anal plug, they did not know that their sex life can be so enjoyable. Therefore, you should not feel uncomfortable while discovering the things that can make your roleplay perfect.
Dirty Talk
Your conversation during a role play is also essential. It will make the game more realistic. The phrases you use merely depend on the roles you’ve chosen to play. For instance, you can say how much you want to punish a naughty student for their bad behavior. You can ask a policeman what you can do to avoid paying a fine.
The Bottom Line
Role-plays can strengthen your relationships and make your sex very enjoyable. Hopefully, this guide will help you implement them into your sex life and make it an unforgettable experience.
